Problem gambling is a public health issue that harms those who gamble and their families. The partners of people with problem gambling may suffer significant emotional and financial stress because of the gambling. At the same time, they may avoid seeking help because of the stigma around problem gambling. This study looked at messages on an online discussion forum for the partners of people with problem gambling. Most partners said the forum was the first place they went to for help. Many said they did not seek help elsewhere due to the stigma around problem gambling. Many partners said the gambling hurt their relationship and caused financial issues for their family. Overall, the partners worried about how the problem gambling had affected their children. Some chose to stay in the relationship to keep the family together, while others chose to divorce.